Meet Rachita Saxena7 min read

Rachita Saxena
Rachita Saxena

 

Hello, I am Rachita Saxena (meanderandwander), a 26-year old dreamer. I am an IT Engineer who worked for 3 years in an IT firm and then quit her job in 2018 to travel full time.

 

Why did I start traveling?

 

Well, as a kid I read a lot of books and watched a lot of movies. And every time I would lay my eyes upon a new destination, I would dream about visiting that place. The dream started with Disneyland as I am a huge Disney fan. But now, I wish to travel the whole world, meet new people, and learn about different cultures.

Earlier, I used to travel for the destinations but now I travel for the experience as well.

 

Who funds my trips?

 

No one apart from me. I saved some money while working in my full-time job and now I freelance as a travel blogger and content writer. I don’t have a rich family or a boyfriend, all my trips happen with my own hard-earned money.

 

Why did I quit my job? 

 

I am not one of those people who suddenly decided to quit the job. In fact, I always planned to quit my job after 3-4 years of working. And this decision was made in the 3rd year of my college. So, I knew what I was doing and I knew the risks involved with quitting my job.

But I am also a person who cannot do something she doesn’t love. So, even though it is a hard road, I have chosen to make the most of my decision.

 

Is Travel Blogging life easy?

 

No. A lot of people think that making a career in traveling or blogging is easy but it is not. A lot of it is on luck and hard work. And it takes at least 4-5 years to make a decent living out of blogging in India. Plus, you need to love writing because if you don’t, you will have a hard time blogging about it.

 

What has been my favorite destination so far? 

Honestly, I can never answer this because each destination is different and unique. So, I don’t feel right about comparing them to each other.

But there are a couple of places which feel like home to me. And I am sure that I will return to them again soon enough. Here are a few places which make me feel like returning soon:

 

  • Kyrgyzstan

 

 

  • Phong Nha Ke Bang, Vietnam

 

 

  • Alleppey, Kerala

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Everyday, I look up in the sky. To catch a glimpse of the sunset or the moon but these city buildings always obscure my path. So, I vow to myself. Never again I am going to let these materialistic things come between me and the sun or the moon. Never again I am going to miss a sunset or a moonrise because I was too busy chasing deadlines. And so, I make this vow to myself. P.S Have you checked out our new post on Alleppey yet? Link in the bio! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #i_hobbygraphy #travelbloggers #silhoutte #scenicview #kerala #sunsets #solotravel #instasunsets #sunsetpics #sunsetlovers #backwaters #alleppey #vscokerala #godsowncountry #keraladiaries #keralatourism #nikond3300 #dslrofficial #riverview #myshoeboxofphotographs #storiesofindia #yourshot_india #travelstoke #worldtravelbook #travelawesome #wearetravelgirls #dametraveler #photographers_of_india #mypixeldiary

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  • Cambodia

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This is for all those who think traveling is a privilege and you have to be really lucky to be able to travel, I have something to tell you. Its not a privilege, it doesn't depend on luck. You have to actually want it to achieve it. Don't be one of those people who are like 'I wish to travel' when you actually mean you want to get a break from your life once in a while. You don't want to travel. You want a vacation. Traveling will never be easy, even more so when you come from a middle class background. It will require your constant sacrifice and efforts. A lot of us might seem 'lucky' to you because we 'get' to travel but there are a lot of efforts required for that. I don't go to parties where I might end up paying a lot and avoid eating or drinking outside. I walk everyday to office so that I can save 60 bucks a day. For all those who feel that my parents are supercool to let me travel, my mother never allowed me to go to my neighbouring market when I was at home. I take buses and cycles where preferable or choose to walk. Yes people, I have been known to walk 10 km just to save a few hundred bucks. So yes, traveling requires your constant energy. Don't assume anyone is lucky, you don't know how hard they have struggled to reach that position. So, next time you think to yourself that you wish to travel. Ask yourself. What exactly is stopping you? . . . #traveldiaries #angkor #siemreap #cambodia #nomllers

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  • Mauritius 

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You are never going to regret the things that you did. You won't regret those sleepless nights or the drunken confessions. The shy 'I love yous' or the sudden hugs. No, you would never regret these small gestures of love. It's always going to be the things that you didn't do. The held on 'Goodbyes', the unsaid proclamations of love, the truth which you were so afraid to let out. Always the things left unsaid. So, don't make this mistake. Don't hold on to your feelings too hard. Let it out. It doesn't matter if it ends up making a fool out of you. In fact, do things which are crazy and utterly ridiculous. Make everyone laugh at you. Because, you know what? In a few years, you won't even remember if everyone laughed at you or not. The only thing you are going to remember is the moment. That moment of truth. Because if, just if it turns out the way you were hoping it to, then you would have a lifetime of happiness to experience. And if not, then at least you would have the satisfaction of knowing.

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My Best Experiences So Far 

 

Here are a few favorite travel experiences of mine which make me want to keep traveling:

 

  • In 2016, I went on my first international trip to Malaysia and it was one of the most amazing experience. Malaysia is a colorful country and I do wish to return there as well.

 

 

  • In 2017, I went on my first solo trip to Matheran and was sent to the police station for the same. It was a little scary moment but everything turned out fine when I told them I am not suicidal, I am just traveling alone.

 

  • In 2017, I went on my first 2-week solo trip to Kerala as well. I hadn’t planned to stay 2 weeks in Kerala, in fact, it was just a weekend trip to Munnar. But I met another solo travel who was also a digital nomad over there. She invited me to accompany her to Alleppey and well, rest is history. I ended up going to Alleppey, Varkala, Kovalam, and Kochi as well.

 

Munnar, Kerala
Munnar, Kerala

 

  • In the same year, I also went on my first solo international trip to Cambodia for my birthday. I used to cycle for 50 km every day as I didn’t have a license or knew how to ride a scooty. But cycling around Cambodia was pretty amazing.

 

  • In Cambodia, I also had my first bonfire party on a beach where we roasted marshmallows. And all of us were strangers. We also saw the planktons shine in the water here which was another amazing moment. Also, I was also able to experience a sea storm here while we were in the middle of the ocean.

 

  • In October 2017, I had my first Couchsurfing experience in Sri Lanka. And it turned out to be a lot of fun. I met a palm reader, boxer, and an Italian embassy official. They all had amazing stories to tell and I learned a lot by talking to them.

 

Nuwara Eliya
Nuwara Eliya

 

  • In December 2017, I went with my friends to Gokarna and we weren’t allowed to enter our rooms after 10 p.m. So, we got a bedsheet and stayed outside for some time until the owners fell asleep. It was a full moon night and the entire beach was lit up with the moonlight. We identified some constellations and I loved watching the waves while being surrounded by people I love.

 

  • In March 2018, I quit my job and it was both a scary and freeing feeling.

 

  • In May 2018, I headed to one of the most beautiful islands in the world, Seychelles, alone. I stayed with a local there and he showed me the real side of Seychelles. I also met other solo travelers here from Germany, Poland, Singapore, etc. and each one had something new to share.

 

Seychelles Itinerary
Seychelles

 

  • My favorite memory of Seychelles is the night we cycled around La Digue island at night. It was a full moon night again and there was no one out apart from me and two fellow travelers.

 

  • After Seychelles, I headed to Mauritius and stayed at a Couchsurfing host’s place. He was one of the sweetest people I have ever met and we talked a lot about our hopes and dreams. From his beach bungalow, I watched the moonrise from the ocean and it was one of the most magical nights ever.

 

  • In July 2018, I went on my first solo trek to one of my most awaited places: Valley of Flowers. I met so many solo trekkers on the way and talked to a lot of people heading to Hemkund Sahib as well. Staying in Gurudwaras was also an amazing experience and I felt so humbled on this entire trek.

 

Valley of Flowers Trek
Valley of Flowers Trek

 

  • In 2019, we made an impromptu trip to Kazakhstan and Kyrgyzstan and it was the best decision ever. We couchsurfed, hitchhiked, and met so many amazing and kind people on the way. There are just too many amazing memories to pen down in this post.

 

  • And finally, in 2019 July, I completed my long-time item from bucket list which was to cycle in Vietnam. I traveled solo to Vietnam and caught up with some old friends, made new friends, and had a blast in this underrated country.

 

My Bucket List

 

Although I have a huge bucket list, here are a few things that I wish to accomplish in the next 5 years.

 

Here are a few things which I have already ticked off my bucket list so far

I plan to make more memories in the coming year. Hopefully, you guys will too. After all, if we don’t live our life to the fullest, who will?